Accept that you will be unbelievably inconvenienced when you follow me. You’ll lay aside your perfectly reasonable expectations for what life was going to look like. You’ll put down the perfectly legitimate concerns that guided you before. You’ll make a break with the past that’s more severe than you ever thought possible. This call is urgent, compelling and all consuming. The kind of call you put off the arranging of your own father’s funeral in order to get in on. Leave those who aren’t alive to me to sort out all those ‘pressing’ matters that you’re no longer concerned with.