Be wary of unhealthy leaders. Many will have influence in your life, that’s normal, but be careful – some look sweet and soft just like you, but inside they’re needy and twisted and you’ll be gobbled up. How will you tell who’s who? Who should you jump in with? Who should you draw back from? Not by outward appearances – every leader looks good! Rather what fruit do they produce in your life? Good trees produce edible fruit, bad trees don’t. Are they feeding you or leaving you cut up? Nourishing you or devouring you? Before picking your trees, check the fruit.