Congratulations on keeping your underwear on, but it’s your lustful inner life that could really ruin you long term. Those inclinations and imaginings may seem innocuous but actually they’re really insidious. Go thermo-nuclear on them. I mean zero negotiation. Your good eye swiveling for a snack on the eye candy? Gouge that gawper out. It is immeasurably better to be a blind man in bliss than fully sighted in the s@!* heap. Your right hand restless to reach where it shouldn’t? Hack that fiddler clean off. Better having a pirate’s hook in paradise than be twiddling both thumbs in hell.